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Requesting Flexible Work Arrangements
Priya Sharma
Financial Analyst | Chicago, IL | Traditional Banking Institution
I've been with my company for three years and have consistently received excellent performance reviews. Recently, my family situation changed, and I need more flexibility in my work schedule to manage caregiving responsibilities. Our company has an official policy allowing flexible work arrangements, but my department head is known for favoring in-office presence and has rejected similar requests from colleagues. I don't want to be perceived as less committed to my career, but this flexibility is essential for my current life circumstances. How should I approach this conversation to maximize my chances of approval?
Digital BFF's Advice
Approach this as a business proposal rather than a personal request. Prepare a one-page document outlining: 1) Your specific flexibility needs (clear days/hours), 2) A detailed plan for maintaining or improving your output metrics, 3) Communication protocols to ensure seamless collaboration, and 4) A proposed 90-day trial period with success metrics. Schedule your conversation during a low-stress period, not during budget cycles or major deadlines. Begin by acknowledging your manager's concern for team cohesion and productivity before presenting your structured solution. Frame flexibility as a performance enhancer: 'I've analyzed my work patterns and believe this arrangement will actually improve my analytical output while maintaining full team integration.' After the meeting, follow up with an email summarizing the discussion and next steps. If pushback continues despite your structured approach, consider exploring an official HR accommodation request or identifying a sponsor at your level or above who has successfully negotiated flexibility. Remember, you're not asking for special treatment but proposing a mutual benefit arrangement that maximizes your contribution under changing circumstances.
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